NH's BAD DIVORCE JUDICIARY SYSTEM

NH among other states have made it to easy for a spouse to pick up, walk out, empty all bank accounts, close all CD's, drain their 401K Plan that was accumulated during the marriage, along with any IRA's. NH has been allowing this while stating NH is a 50/50 division state pursuant to NH's own divorce Laws.

NH's divorce courts are guilty of permitting one spouse to steal from the other, by not processing each divorce in a timely manner. A guilty spouse gets away without any repercussion for months, sometimes years, or as in my case, even possibly never. This is because the other spouse is left with no financial means to survive, let alone retain an attorney, or even be capable to pay all the fees, necessary to establish proof of all stolen assets.

This is stealing plain and simple and is a crime that has been let go unpunished for years. If you yourself, or know someone, who has experienced this in NH divorce courts, please contact me at NHDIVORCELAWSAREBAD@gmail.com. We are a group working for answers on how to resolve NH's corrupted Family Court Judicial System!

A current investigation from a New Hampshire State House Legislative Committee is now ongoing, hearing cases upon cases proving only one thing. NH now has an epidemic of malfeasant marital masters and judges. The request for removal of the following 3 NH judicial chairs were made to no avail, but are just the beginning. HA1, requests the removal of Marital Master Micheal Gardner in Laconia, NH, from his said office. HA2, requests the removal of District Court Judge Lucinda Sadler in Derry, NH, from her said office. And finally, HA3, requests the removal of Marital Master Philip Cross in Derry, NH, from his said office. This is why people need to continue to bring their cases forward to correct such an injustice!

These actions prove NH divorce courts are not enforcing the law. But they are forcing hundreds of spouses to suffer unnecessarily. Through months, sometimes years, waiting for NH courts to finally fit them into their busy schedule. This is not even humane let alone should be considered legal when a 20+ year marriage dissolves.

By no means does this follow NH's state statutes, stating division of marital assets begins at 50/50 pursuant to NH's own Divorce Law. This forces a spouse to have to unnecessarily turn to NH's Welfare and Medicaid to survive.

So to all of NH's politicians who obviously have supported this judicial system for years, why don't you just see the obvious and learn to just, "Keep It Simple Stupid" because "Time Is Money." All NH residents have been paying for years from the repercussion of the injustice throughout NH's Family Courts that has been permitted by all of YOU, and this needs to stop here and now!

NH's Marital Masters and Judges do not follow or even enforce NH divorce laws. For example in my divorce, Roger R. Brosor Vs Jean Brosor, Co-Respondent Laurie Ann Nurnberg, (now Brosor), (Doc# 07-M-995, June 29, 2009). It was decreed a "NO FAULT DIVORCE" based on "IRRECONCILABLE DIFFERENCES," by Marital Master Alice love and signed off by none other, than the ?Honorable? Judge William Groff, a criminal court judge," stating there were previous problems in my marriage before my ex husband committed adultery. Gee, can someone please explain why else would adultery occur in the first place? This is how NH excuses Adultery and permits it to be "IRRECONCILABLE DIFFERENCES!"

Oh there were problems alright! first, there was testimony by my ex himself, proving he perjured himself at the relief hearing, and on 3 interrogatories (questionnaires) he was previously given before trial to answer, causing my request for temporary alimony to be denied, and my home ordered to be sold.

Then there were his Pay stubs proving, along with his testimony, that he was withdrawing and draining his 401K Plan for over the previous 7 years without my knowledge. His bank statements proved he closed all joint bank accounts, then re-opened his own accounts. His credit card payments were made from a checking account That I was not even aware of, that he did not submit with his bank account information, that my attorney had to demand more than once for. He then whitened out the description/payable-to, on the bank statements submitted for over $22,000 in unknown checks that he wrote.

He also testified to illegally tape recording me for months, with a voice activated tape recorder, without my knowledge or permission, then played these recordings to others.

Marital Master Alice Love from the NH Hillsborough County Superior Court, did acknowledge my ex husbands adultery with a woman he met through his married co-worker. Who at the time was having an affair with this woman himself, while she was going through her second divorce. The co-worker and his wife testified on my behalf as to what this woman inflicted on their whole family.

They told the courts how she was brought to their Londonderry Christian Church in Londonderry NH, by a parishioner to seek help for herself and her 4 children. Instead she sought out a parishioner who was the co-worker. The LCC's church pastor told her to leave with her children never to return, because of her adulterous behavior.

The court also heard how she then moved on to Rockingham Christian Church in Salem NH, with now, both the co-worker and my then husband. Pastor Tom Gerdts was clearly informed about her adulterous behavior by LCC's pastor and myself.

The court also heard her emails she wrote to the co-worker saying how, "I NOW GET IT, "MY BEAUTY IS MY POWER OVER MEN AND THAT'S HOW I ALLURED YOU AND OTHERS"... "YOU COULD NOT CONTROL YOURSELF"..."YOU COULDN'T SAY NO TO ME AND MY SEDUCTIVE WAYS."...."I WONT DO TO ROGER AND HIS FAMILY WHAT I DID TO YOU AND YOURS"...."I LEARNED ABOUT MY POWER AS A WOMAN THROUGH YOU AND ROGER AND I HAVE I HOPE BECOME A BETTER PERSON BECAUSE OF THE EXPERIENCES THAT WE SHARED."...."WHY DO I HAVE ANOTHER MARRIED MAN JUST WAITING TO USE ME TO END HIS SHITTY MARRIAGE?" Well, for starters, why don't you try to stop spreading your legs for every married mid-life crisis that passes your way!

The courts heard even more of her emails she wrote to the co-worker. She stated, "YOU HAVE HELPED A VERY DESTRUCTIVE AND SICK WOMAN TO DESTROY OUR FRIENDS LIFE LONG WORKS OF EARNINGS"..."I" NEED YOU TO FIX THE DAMAGE YOU HAVE CAUSED ROGER BY WRITING HIM AN APOLOGY AND A LETTER TO THE COURT SAYING THAT JEAN IS MANIPULATING THE COURTS WITH HALF TRUTHS TURNED INTO LIES. IF YOU CAN DO THIS I WILL CONSIDER POSSIBLY SPENDING SOME TIME (TALKING) WITH YOU."..."DON'T IGNORE MY REQUEST, ITS ON THE TABLE UNTIL THE END OF TODAY, AFTER THAT YOU WILL HAVE TO READ OLD EMAIL TO STAY CONNECTED TO ME BECAUSE I WILL BE DONE COMMUNICATING WITH YOU IN EVERY AND ANY WAY."..."WHAT DO YOU SAY?...A FRIENDSHIP WITH YOU WOULD BE SO MUCH BETTER THAN WHAT WE ARE NOW."

The court also saw a letter with no return address or phone number, that she wrote and sent to me, that I received Mother's Day Weekend, dated May 11, 2007, telling me how her relationship with my husband was purely platonic, and that my husband was trying to decide "to end or mend our marriage." In this Letter, she referred to a CD she included, as "ON THE FAMILY," that my husband copied for her, of 3 Rockingham Christian Church Services that she recorded. Though imagine my surprise to pull the CD from the envelope and on the CD Jacket, she wrote "WIFE SWAP, APRIL 29, 2007" in all 4 corners, and on the CD itself was written, "WIFE SWAP BUILD" in bright green marker.

When Marital Master Alice Love gave the Co-Respondent the option to take the stand in her own defense, she refused! The court found from "The Courts Ruling On Finding Of Facts and Ruling of Law," specifically numbers 47 through 56, that the Co-Respondent was guilty of purposely wanting my marriage to end, and initiated some of the events that caused my marriage to fail.

(7/10/10 - NOTE: In April 2010, it was made public knowledge by Rockingham Christian Church that Laurie Ann Brosor participated in a pastoral care training and certification program called "PALM," "Pastoral Authorized Lay Ministry" at the New England Pastoral Institute in Salem, NH, and has now been announced to the church as a knowledgeable Spiritual and Emotional Guide for those in need, within the church and the community!)

This is the same woman who sat in a LCC parishioner/wife's living room on Christmas Eve 2006, and asked her, "to please give her husband a divorce because her marriage did not glorify God, and that God placed it upon the husband's heart and hers to be together!"

This is the same woman who admitted in her own words in a email, to being, "MENTALLY ILL AND THAT THOSE AROUND HER WERE RAVAGED BY HER INSANE WAY OF THINKING!"

This is the same woman who placed a picture of herself holding her divorce decree from her second divorce on her My Space with the statement, "39 AND SINGLE, ANY TAKERS?" Well, she found one sucker!

This is the same woman who became engaged to my husband in September 2007 after he just filed for divorce on July 25, 2007, 4 days after they caught my private investigator who caught them together.

This is the same woman who married my now ex husband the day after our divorce finalized! MANY people have said I could not have ask for better justice!

(NOTE: TO ROCKINGHAM CHRISTIAN CHURCH IN SALEM NH,

SHAME ON PASTOR TOM GERDTS, AND SHAME ON THE ELDORS OF THE CHURCH FOR BEING WELL INFORMED AND AWARE OF THIS WOMAN'S MULTIPLE ACTS OF ADULTERY AND ENFORCING SUCH A DISGRACE TO THE CHURCH AND ALL ITS PARISHIONERS WHO TRUST YOU TO FOLLOW YOUR TEACHINGS AND BELIEFS! I DO NOT KNOW WHAT GOD YOU CHOOSE TO FOLLOW OR WHAT BIBLE YOU ARE PREACHING FROM TO JUSTIFY ENDANGERING YOUR PARISHIONERS AND COMMUNITY!

TO THE NEW ENGLAND PASTORAL INSTITUTE IN SALEM NH,

SHAME ON YOU! FOR YOU HAVE AN OBLIGATION AND RESPONSIBILITY FOR WHOM YOU PROMOTE INTO SOCIETY AS EMOTIONAL AND SPIRITUAL GUIDES, AND FOR ALL THOSE IN NEED AND ARE ALREADY TROUBLED SOULS! YOU HAVE PROVEN TO FOLLOW IN THE FOOTSTEPS OF THE CATHOLIC CHURCH'S LONG LIST OF PEDOPHILE PRIESTS, WHICH IS BY FAR, ALREADY PROVEN TO BE A DANGEROUSLY HARMFULL ROAD TO ALL WHO TRUST AND FOLLOW YOU!)

This woman was also investigated for her involvement in Welfare Fraud, for feeding, housing, and sleeping with other woman's husbands with their $75,000+ yearly incomes, under the same roof with her children, with her government assistance and food stamps. My God, this woman could be Kristin Ruggiero's twin sister!

This is what Roger R Brosor, son of Ralph and Lucille Brosor, brother of Paul Brosor, supposedly replaces a bad marriage with! Actually the family has welcomed her with open arms, for some have even befriended her on facebook. So what does that tell you!?!

Do you think any charges what so ever were pressed against such a professional homewrecker? Absolutely not! when NH Law states, "Consideration will be taken, for both parties capability for future acquisition." This was not meant for, or was even referring to, the Co-Respondent!

The court also heard my testimony which my ex husband nor his attorney could dispute, because I had my medical records. He increased my life insurance policy, then purposely started an argument with me in front of my doctor and nurses, while I was in pre-op waiting to have a hysterectomy.

This was 4 weeks prior to him catching my Private Investigator, and running to an attorney 4 days later to file for divorce before I did. He was well aware of my history with hemorrhaging following any surgical procedure. I even had to have 2 blood transfusions after childbirth. Twice, I even Hemorrhaged 24 hours after having a simple cervical polip removed, and ended up in the Emergency Room to once again, have to be admitted into the hospital for a few days then too.

During my hysterectomy, my blood pressure was ultimately fluctuating, causing serious complications. My doctor had to immediately re-open after just closing, to find and repair where I began to hemorrhage. I went home the next day only to be re-admitted to the hospital 48 hours later and put on oxygen from multiple pneumonia in both lungs, with severe abdominal pain from constant coughing!

After hearing all of this, Marital Master Love still ruled, a "NO FAULT DIVORCE," based on "IRRECONCILABLE DIFFERENCES." I cannot even begin to fathom what constitutes ruling a "FAULT DIVORCE," THAT ISN'T JUST SHY OF MURDER, in the state of NH. Can you just imagine how NH's criminal courts rule on crime? NH might as well just legalize bigamy while there at it! I guess this is what NH means by their motto, "LIVE FREE OR DIE."

THIS IS HOW NH'S JUDICIAL SYSTEM FOLLOWS & ENFORCES OUR STATE LAWS, OR NOT!

* The house was my inheritance which Marital Master Love granted him 50%.

* The Timeshare that we jointly owned, MM Love granted him 100% without paying me 50% pursuant to NH Law.

* MM Love made no ruling for him to pay any back-alimony when both, his answers to his interrogatories and his bank accounts submitted, proved both he and Attorney Follender committed PERJURY at the relief hearing, causing my request for temporary alimony to be denied, and my home to be sold, leaving me homeless and still broke.

* MM Love made no ruling pertaining to returning my 50% pursuant to NH Law of 20 years marital life savings, that His bank account records submitted, proved he took.

* MM Love made no ruling pertaining to returning my 50% pursuant to NH Law of his 401K plan that his bank accounts proved along with his own testimony, that he was withdrawing and draining before our divorce was filed.

* MM Love made no ruling pertaining to the fact that he signed over a vehicle to our daughter without my knowledge or permission, before the divorce was filed, proving once again, the court ignored NH law stating, division of assets begins at 50/50.

* MM Love made no ruling pertaining to the charges I filed, along with supporting testimony given, that proved he committed CONTEMPT OF COURT which neither he himself, nor his attorney disputed.

* MM Love made no ruling pertaining to, TAMPERING WITH EVIDENCE, when the bank statements he submitted showed a number of checks, with the description/pay to, was whitened out, totaling over $22,000 in unknown payments.

* MM Love made no ruling pertaining to, BRIBERY, WITNESS TAMPERING, or OBSTRUCTION OF JUSTICE, when his mistress's emails proved she attempted to bribe my witness.

* MM Love made no ruling pertaining to, his own testimony that he, ILLEGALLY TAPE RECORDED ME FOR MONTHS, without my knowledge or permission, and played these recordings to others. He still has possession of these recordings to this day!

* MM Love made no ruling pertaining to HARMFUL ENDANGERMENT AND INJURY TO HEALTH for what he did to me in the hospital!

* MM Love denied my request for him to continue paying for my medical coverage.

To answer your question? YES, MM Love was actually indeed sitting behind the bench the day of trial!

TO MM LOVE,
WHAT DO YOU HAVE TO SAY FOR YOURSELF? WHO'S THE REAL LIAR NOW? OR DO YOU STILL NOT GET IT?

MM Love however did rule that he pay me $45,000 in alimony spread out over the next 5 years. No where near the 50% amount owed to me pursuant to NH 50/50 Division Laws, of what he actually stole.

The evidence in my divorce proved the following criminal acts were committed, and even some confessed to, by Roger R Brosor and Laurie Ann Nurnberg, and were completely ignored by Marital Master Alice Love; Welfare Fraud, Perjury, Tampering With Evidence, Bribery, Obstruction Of Justice, Witness Tampering, Illegally Recording of Another in a 2 Party State, Harmful Endangerment and Injury To Health, and last but never shall be the least, Adultery, the original grounds I filed for divorce in the first place!

THIS IS ALL JUST IN ONE SINGLE CASE PEOPLE! And to think BAE SYSTEMS in Nashua, NH, a government contracted company, permits this very same man to have a Security Clearance, and the use of their Internet to email his mistress, to plan all of this in the first place! To the President of the United States of America...WOW, THIS COUNTRY SURELY IS SAFE NOW!!! To the United States of America, BAE Systems has now proven their full support in their company's cesspool of marital affairs!

Correct me if I'm wrong, but when an officer of the court becomes knowledgeable of a crime committed, are they not bound by law to even report it, or in my case at least rule on it? This clearly explains who the real felon was in this marriage, and explains why and how, he and his family members, were able to inflict other legal ramifications on me years ago. Oh, and above all, lets not forget his co-conspirators in crime, THE NH JUDICIAL SYSTEM!

Given what the statutes are and what MM Love ruled in my divorce, or lack thereof, only proves that the Hillsborough County Superior Court in Nashua, NH, clearly dismisses our states laws. The number of LAWS BROKEN AND IGNORED by Marital Master Alice Love and The ?Honorable? Judge William Groff, throughout my divorce, proves how NH courts are causing the unnecessary increasing need to both NH's Welfare and Medicaid Systems.

By no means should any of this be at my expense! Nor should the courts have allowed it to be! Hopefully that bulb has turned on by now, but if not, you can believe me, that there is a whole lot more where this came from! Let's start at the beginning of this Judicial Circus, shall we?

FACTS: RELIEF HEARING HELD NOVEMBER 29, 2007 & TRIAL HELD APRIL 21&22, 2009

The Hillsborough County Superior Courts took 4 months to schedule my Relief Hearing in November 2007 that I requested in July. To my surprise, none other than the ?Honorable? Criminal Court Judge, William Groff, was presiding over my proceedings and not a marital master. It just so happens coincidentally that my ex husband's attorney, Richard C. Follender, is also a criminal defense attorney! Gee, no surprise there!

When our case was the first case called in alphabetical order, Judge Groff told his court clerk "no" and our file immediately went to the bottom of the pile. It was clear that criminal cases took precedence over domestic.

When our case was his last case called, Judge Groff then decides to tell us that "he" does not have the 30 minutes the court scheduled to hear our case. He said, "I can only give you 15 minutes, I'll just cut you off when your time is up, take it or leave it."

I am now not only dealing with going through a divorce, but now one arrogant, full of himself, NH Hillsborough County Superior Criminal Court Judge, who's bruised swollen ego, is insulted, for even being handed a family court case to begin with! His tantramoneous display in court had clearly proven this!

Then he abuses his authority, and refuses to even follow what the courts ordered in the first place. I chose to take my chances out of desperation and above all my needs. Beginning to see a glimmer yet? This is NH's Judicial System at its best! Lets continue.

Oh, and for the record, I phoned and spoke with the NH Judiciary Committee and the NH Bar Asocciation and was told by both, "It really sounds like you have no case and are just upset with him!" I received their message loud and clear. THEIR USELESS PEOPLE!

Obviously these groups are in place to protect NH's corrupted Judicial System! Quite The little NH Mafia we now have, wouldn't you say! The following shows us how Attorney Richard C. follender and Judge William Groff break laws instead of enforcing them, OH, and JUST BECAUSE....THEY JUST CAN!....REMEMBER, THIS IS NH JUDICIAL SYSTEM AT IT'S FINEST!

*At this November 29, 2007 Relief Hearing, my ex husband's attorney, Richard C. Follender, told Judge Groff, "MY CLIENT IS A "HONEST", HARD WORKING, MEEK DEMEANOR KIND OF GUY WHO JUST WANTS THIS DIVORCE OVER WITH AS SOON AS POSSIBLE!"

FACT 1: Yet, Attorney Follender found out in October 2007, that my ex husband, his client, admitted to a Nashua police officer, that he lied to his own attorney and I, about already constantly coming to the house while I was at work, and taking things without my permission.

FACT 2: Yet, my ex husband, his client, also tampered with the evidence. On his Bank Statements submitted with his interrogatories, he whitened-out whom checks were written to, that totaled all together over $22,000 in unknown payments.

FACT 3: Yet, Attorney Follender had to find out at this Relief Hearing that I hired a private investigator, which my ex husband, his client, found out and was aware of since July 2007.

FACT 4: Yet, during Trial in April 2009, my ex husband, his client, confessed to illegally tape recording me without my permission in a 2 party state, and played these recordings to others.

FACT 5: Yet, during trial in April 2009, the courts heard testimony proving my ex husband, his client, committed Contempt of Court, when he chose to come on to the property he was court ordered off of, without my permission first. Which by the way, there was no dispute to these facts from either my ex husband or Attorney Follender.

*Attorney Follender then tells Judge Groff, my ex husband was, "HOMELESS AND MOVING FROM HOUSE TO HOUSE BETWEEN FAMILY AND FRIENDS." at this November 29, 2007 Relief Hearing!...AAAW...IT'S JUST ALL SO SAD!...Could someone please hand me a tissue!

FACT 6: yet, my ex husband shortly after this hearing, submitted his interrogatories through Attorney Follender, that he answered under oath. On them, he stated that he moved in with his mistress in "November 2007," which proves he was already living with her at the time of the Relief Hearing. Thus now proving both he and Attorney Follender perjured themselves under oath in a court of law.

No wonder Attorney Follender withheld his clients interrogatories until after the Relief Hearing, making them 3 months overdue, placing his client in the position of ONCE AGAIN, Contempt of Court!

(NOTE: Your really going to get a kick out of this! Attorney Richard C. Follender had the audacity to threaten me, to postpone the scheduled trial date, because I refused to submit my interrogatories in less time than the thirty days required by law. I was still waiting for him to actaully for once, submits his own clients 3rd set within the required 30 days by law.

You see the first 2 were purposely withheld, because the evidence in them proved everything out of Attorney Follender's mouth at the Relief Hearing, was one of the largest piles of B.S. that ever hit the Judicial Fan in American History, ACTUALLY, I'm surprised he even finally submitted them at all, once I read what was in them. But then again, I guess he already new Judge Groff along with Marital Master Love, was going to ignore any evidence I had.

He placed his client in the position of contempt of court twice, WHILE now also committing multiple perjury himself along with his client! Abviously Attorney Follender suffers a lapse in memory when it comes to NH Rule 8.4.MISCONDUCT under THE NH RULES OF CONDUCT!)

NH RULE 8.4. MISCONDUCT
It is professional misconduct for a lawyer to:

(a) violate or attempt to violate the Rules of Professional Conduct, knowingly assist or induce another to do so, or do so through the acts of another;

(b) commit a criminal act that reflects adversely on the lawyer's honesty, trustworthiness or fitness as a lawyer in other respects;

(c) engage in conduct involving dishonesty, fraud, deceit or misrepresentation;

(d) state or imply an ability to influence improperly a government agency or official;

(e) state or imply an ability to achieve results by means that violate the Rules of Professional Conduct or other law.

My God Richard, you really should learn to at least open and look at your clients case file once in a while. THAT IS UNLESS YOU PREFER CONSTANTLY SUFFERING THE OPEN MOUTH INSERT FOOT SYNDROME. There is even more evidence to prove this, now isn't that right Richard!?! Shall we continue? I say lets!

FACT 7: yet, during trial in April 2009, my ex husband now testifies to moving in with his mistress in "August 2007," which now proves once again he perjured himself under oath in his interrogatories along with when he and Attorney Follender perjured themselves under oath, at the November Relief Hearing! Hopefully you can still follow the games these two actually made out of my life, because I'm beginning to have trouble keeping up with Laurel & Hardy myself!

*Attorney Follender then follows it up by telling Judge Groff that his client,"COULD NOT EVEN AFFORD HIS OWN PLACE LET ALONE ALIMONY, ALONG WITH THE HOMESTEADS EXPENSES, THEREFORE REQUESTS THE COURT TO ORDER THE SALE OF THE HOUSE!"...AAAAW...The poor thing...OOOH, What the hell, just pass me the whole box!

FACT 8: Yet, his client, my ex husband's payroll stubs, along with his bank statements, showed him withdrawing and draining his 401K Plan for over the previous 7 years. These same payroll stubs also showed year end gross incomes $5,000-$10,000 over his present yearly gross income he submitted to the courts.

FACT 9: Yet at trial in April 2009, we submitted his bank account records, I received from Attorney follender, showing balances of 5 digit figures of thousands and thousands of dollars, along with a cash flow for a 9 month period, that totaled $7,000, ONCE AGAIN...YUP, YOU GOT IT!..OVER HIS YEARLY GROSS INCOME HE SUBMITTED TO THE COURTS!

FACT10: Yet these statements showed him paying his mistress's mortgage and utilities along with ours simultaneously.

FACT11: Yet again, lets not forget those statements showing that he tampered with them, whiting-out the descriptions for over $22,000 in unknown purchases.

FACT12: Yet these statements showed he purchased 5 cell phones + a new contract for his mistress and her 4 children in August 2007, he Rented a cabin on Newfound Lake in September 2007(he Refused to fix the brakes on my car in October 2007), he paid his mistress's children's ski club $600.00 in November 2007, and last but never shall be the least, he purchased a $2,500 engagement ring in December 2007, so he says, she was flashing an engagement ring at this November 2007 Relief Hearing. And let's not forget those legal fees he was also paying while now doing all of this!

FACT13: Yet these statements also show woman's retail stores and catalog orders, restaurants and movie theatres, ski lodge reservations at Loon Mtn, Ragged Mtn, and Sunappee Mtn, along with reservation reward charges of $12.00 per month on his credit card. All above those legal expenses, proving ONCE AGAIN, he along with Attorney Follender perjured themselves under oath during November's Relief Hearing in a court of law.

FACT14: Yet the copies of his credit card records included photo copies of the payments/checks which showed proof of a bank account he purposely withheld and never listed or admitted to on his bank account information requested in his 1st set of interrogatories!

FACT15: Yet, whithin 6 months after our divorce finalizes, and paying off attorney's fees, and now paying me alimony, he is now able to afford, to marry his mistress 24 hours after being divorced, takes a honeymoon, and purchases a new home with an acre+ of land and a three car garage! What I want to know is, what the hell kind of Wedding Gift did Attorney Follender, the so-called ?Honorable? Judge Groff, and Marital Master Love, even give to the happy couple, and did it even come close to matching mine?

FACT16: And to think all of this was done on, and I QUOTE ATTORNEY RICHARD C. FOLLENDER'S OWN WORDS TO JUDGE GROFF, "HE ONLY MAKES AN ENGINEERING ASSISTANCE SALARY, NOT AN ENGINEERS!" Then again, this all began with the one and only (I Quote once again, the masterful Attorney Follender himself) "HONEST", HARD WORKING, MEEK DEMEANOR KIND OF GUY," Roger R Brosor himself, who even went as far as to say in his interrogatories, "SHE TOOK ADVANTAGE OF MY MEEK DEMEANOR!" Believe me, it's just my opinion, but there isn't anything "HONEST OR MEEK" about this guy! And while we're at it, lets just add to the list, Attorney Follender, MM Love, and the so-called ?Honorable? Judge Groff!

Well, bravo and tootles to Attorney Richard C. Follender! He was able to get one out of three right! His client, along with himself I may add, was/is definitely "HARD WORKING," AT BEING BOLDFACE LIARS IN A COURT OF LAW!

BUT, then again we are talking about the same Criminal Defense Attorney, Richard C. Follender, who stood in a courtroom and once told a Criminal Court Judge...YUP, YOU GOT IT!..the one and only, William Groff, in 2007, that a 1997 Felony A with 2 years parole could have been expunged a couple of years prior the present date, when in fact, by Law, it could not even be expunged for 2 more years!

I really couldn't tell which one perjured themselves worse over the other. Laurel or Hardy! And now we also have Charlie Chaplan behind the bench, ALL obviously hating to do any homework before even entering a courtroom to realize "Who's On First!" Remember Rule 8.4.MISCONDUCT!

I must say to Attorney Richard C. Follender, who by the way charges from $350 to $500 per hour(PROBABLY THE SAME RATES AS MY NOW EX HUSBANDS NEW WIFE), you gave the performance of a lifetime in that courtroom, that could very well of won you an Academy Award! The character Denny Crane, from the television show "Boston Legal" would of been very proud! I guess as long as you were paid, WHAT THE HELL, LYING ON BEHALF OF A CLIENT IS THE ONLY WAY YOUR ABLE TO WIN ANY CASES THESE DAYS, but now, that's obviously not a problem for you, now is it Richard!?!

This truly is how NH'S KANGAROO JUDICIAL SYSTEM WORKS! this is how it causes MANY of the unnecessary expenses to our NH Welfare and Medicaid System! So hopefully that bulb turned on by now and should actually be blinding you, but if not, there still is more!

Judge Groff's final ruling was to order the sale of my family home and inheritance, and deny me temporary alimony based on my husbands lies with no supporting evidence, and Deny Crane's (Attorney Richard C. Follender) Oscar winning courtroom performance, and ONLY ordered my ex husband off the property unless he received my permission first.

This is my life being decided by a judge who never lived it and only heard 7 1/2 minutes of it. Who obviously failed in Math, and completely refused to look at any piece of evidence I had. This Same Judge is probably breaking record time ruling on crime everyday while actually committing it himself! Gee, how really safe are we?

The house was put up for sale and it sold in several weeks. The proceeds were then put into trust until the trial, because once again my ex and I would not agree to the others terms. I was now homeless on top of being completely broke from a 20+ year marriage. Thank you so very much to the so-called ?Honorable? Judge William Groff. May God show mercy on your wife, if you even have one!

You see, one of my many motions to reconsider was denied becuase Attorney Richard C. Follander told the courts we were in discussion to permit me $10,000 from the house proceeds. What Attorney Follender purposely so kindly left out, was that it was only under the stipulation that my ex husband was permitted to have an additional $4,500 for himself! Remember NH Rule 8.4.(C)MISCONDUCT? Well, Hell would of frozen over before I would let that man steal one more dime!

If it were not for the love and support from my wonderful family, I would of ended up living out of my car to my death, before ever being able to see the light of a divorce trial in a NH courtroom! Not everyone is as fortunate. To think Nashua, NH, was twice voted the best place to live and raise your children! Well think again!

TO THE SO-CALLED ?HONORABLE? JUDGE WILLIAM GROFF & MARITAL MASTER ALICE LOVE,

LIKE ATTORNEY RICHARD C. FOLLENDER, YOUR OWN STUPIDITY CHOSE NOT TO TAKE THE TIME TO DO YOUR JOBS....TO ACTUALLY LOOK AT WHAT WAS PUT RIGHT IN FRONT OF YOU....OR THE REAL TRUTH IS....YOU WERE CLEARLY PAID OFF TO IGNORE IT! EITHER WAY, I SUGGEST TO ALL OF YOU, TO STOP PLAYING GOD AND START CLEANING UP YOUR ACT! AND ABOVE ALL, STOP PORTRAYING DOCTORS WHO CUT OFF THE WRONG LIMBS!!!

The actions portrayed by these three Nazi's have clearly clarified the true meaning of NH's motto, "LIVE FREE OR DIE." The real question is, who the hell is their Hitler? Perhaps the Governors seat now held by John Lynch who AMONG OTHERS, sat in office, obviously ignoring NH's corrupted Judicial System? Who will be NH's newest Hitler to follow?

All these actions, only prove that the state of NH, strongly believes that the taxpayer is solely responsible, for all financial needs caused by the outcome of NH divorce courts, instead of the responsible spouses who financially ruined the lives of others.

So in the meantime, NH allows all spouses like mine, who have their midlife crisis:

* To commit multiple crimes that are punishable by law!
* To walk off with their $75,000+ yearly incomes intact!
* To drain 100% of 20+ years marital life savings!
* Even reward them 50% of their spouses inheritance!
* Even reward them 100% of a joint ownership for a Timeshare!
* To drain their 401K accumulated during a 20+ year marriage!
* And have 100% medical benefits all intact!
* The means to pay all "their" legal fees!
* To commit adultery, re-marry, even afford a honeymoon while now paying alimony!
* The capability to purchase a new home with an acre+ of land and 3 car garage!
* All within 6 months of their divorce!
* While the ex spouse from a 20+ year marriage now lives below poverty level!?!

Basically and simply explains in a nut shell, how the state of NH, specifically Hillsborough County Superior Court, has gone straight to hell in a hand basket! Let this be a lesson, for New Hampshire is now THE state THAT ONLY FULLY SUPPORTS OPEN MARRIAGES! If it were up to New Hampshire's Judicial System, Massachusetts would still be burning witches at the stake!

Seriously, is any of this finally sinking in yet? Are you even beginning to see the big picture here? These expenses are what NH divorce courts have been inflicting unnecessarily for years, to our tax dollars, paid by all NH residents, that's much needed elsewhere. If anybody knows what the pay-off price is going for NH's Judicial System these days, please let me in on it, because we already know what Attorney Richard C. Follender's price is!

Please tell me of your experience in NH divorce court or of someone you know here or elsewhere because this cannot continue happening! The law clearly states people have to be held accountable for their actions.

NH Law states a division begins at 50/50, and that Adultery is a Fault Divorce and a Misdemeanor. If we have to follow the law, than why the hell shouldn't our OWN Judicial Court System be held accountable to enforce these laws? WAKE UP NEW HAMPSHIRE!

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AngryMomOf2 said...

I found your blog!!! I met you in Concord on Tuesday morning and have been thinking about you ever since. Would you like to get together for lunch or dinner sometime this week or next? We need to help each other. We cannot make enough noise about this issue on our own. We need women to help other women!

Why isn't anyone standing up for us! I have a husband who was not ordered to pay child support making $85,000 per year and now my children and I are on food stamps and welfare! My children and I were removed from our home and left to fend for ourselves. Why is this happening?! We need to fight back. I refuse to lay down and let this happen!

We have to fight back....we have to!


Anonymous said...

ABUSE OF POWER
Derry NH Family Court
Judge Paul Moore

As I write this, Judge Moore sits on the bench in Family Court doling out rulings that will result in poverty and homelessness to women and children who have had the bad fortune to come before him for divorce hearings.

Mind you I said – Divorce – not criminal hearings.

The Honorable Judge Moore, and the Derry Marital Master, who is going through his second divorce, feel it necessary to take their anger and frustration out on women rather then dispense legal rulings based on the facts before them and on the state laws of New Hampshire. I have witnessed Judge Moore deny a woman the right to speak on her own behalf, I have watched as he shamed and ridiculed her and ruled that SHE needed to pay child support to her husband who makes $80,000 a year when she was a stay at home mother of two and had no job. He allowed illegal tapes and copies of unverified e-mails into evidence and allowed no opportunity for any defence. He ordered my daughter to pay her husband's attorney fees in the amount of $2,500. while she herself has no council nor can she afford one. Now there may be a warrant out for her arrest for contempt of court – when in fact the court itself IS IN CONTEMPT - for perjury, blatant miscarriage of justice, ignoring the rules and laws of New Hampshire and abusing the powers of office. This needs to be stopped before hundreds more women are forced onto welfare, to live in poverty, and homelessness with their children.

How can this happen you ask – easy. You take one woman with no money + one corrupt, angry judge = no voice, no power, and no recourse. Someone needs to wake up and see this is happening. Someone needs to DO something NOW. A mother of two may be going to jail for comtempt of court and need to pay a fine of $2,000 if her husband's lawyer has her motion approved. And yes the lawyer is a woman and a mother. I wonder how she sleeps at night after tucking her children into bed knowing she is responsible for two children not sleeping in their own beds in the only home they knew.

I have never believed that this could happen in America. I thought there were laws to protect those who cannot protect themselves. I believed that by being a citizen you had rights - to fairness, to be heard, to justice. I was wrong. The only way you receive justice and fairness is by having the money to buy it. The poor, of which I now feel I am one, have no voice, no power and no where to turn. That is why they give up and give in to the system. They have nothing with which to fight it and nothing left to lose.

What can I do you ask? Plenty! There is power in numbers, even numbers of people who have no money. If anyone who sees this and wonders how this can happen, if you know of someone or have yourself been on the receiving end of this abuse of power – please let me hear from you. We are presenting a case before the State of New Hampshire Legislative committee investigating this situation and we need your voice. Now is the chance to be heard and together we can right some of the wrongs that have been done to women in this situation. All is not hopeless, all is not lost and we will be heard. Please join us is putting an end to this outrage. When you fall from the grace of being a middle class housewife and mother; you are destined to become a poor, homeless welfare case. NICE COUNTRY AMERICA! CAN YOU JUST SIT BY AND THINK - THANK GOD IT IS NOT ME! Well it could be, in the blink of an eye or the stroke of a pen.

A Very Sad Grandmother


Anonymous said...

"No-fault divorce is the middle-class equivalent of public assistance, creating single-parent homes among the affluent as welfare did among the poor. In the United States, where the trend began, all the major institutions of the divorce industry were originally created as ancillary to welfare: juvenile/family courts, child support enforcement, child protection services. No-fault divorce extended these ‘services’ to the middle class because that was where the money was, and with it political power."


Veronica said...

Jeannie, please e-mail me at vhdmail2007@yahoo.com. There are a number of us who have been, and are going through, divorces in NH who have experienced the same treatment as you have. NH courts are NOT women friendly. It is a "old boy" network. We are working on getting together in numbers to try do something about the problem, if we can. Our experience has also been that our divorces are not according to the law, and while our ex-spouses are living very comfortable material lives with girlfriends, we are left impoverished.

Veronica


Anonymous said...

I see a lot of comments here, where people are complaining about their financial loss.

Looking back at whatever monetary things I lost will never compare to the real loss and devastation divorce leaves behind.

I lost my son and I will never forget the last words that came out of his mouth:
"I am not gonna waste my breath"

I do believe that we all will pay for our sins, be it here on earth or wherever we go afterwards.

I do believe that adultery is right up there with suicide, you will feel the eternal heat.

I would like to mention a lawyer who played right along with her mentally ill client, knowing full well what kind of mental state Mrs. Murray, Nurnberg, Brosor or whatever she will call herself in the future, was in.

Her name is Rebecca J Rutter out of Derry NH. She should be ashamed of herself. I can't believe a woman that intelligent fell for a class A bullshit artist.

Stefan